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What parents and teachers can do to help children overcome shyness There are many strategies that can be used to help children overcome shyness. Reviewed by: Colleen Sherman, PhD. Larger text size Large text size Regular text size. What Is Shyness? Reacting to New Things New and unfamiliar situations can bring out shy feelings — like the first day of school, meeting someone new, or speaking in front of a group for the first time.
Why Are Some People Shy? Our genes determine our physical traits, like height, eye color, skin color, and body type. But genes also influence certain personality traits, including shyness.
But not everyone with a genetic tendency to be shy develops a shy temperament. Life experiences also play a role. Life experiences. When people are faced with a situation that may lead them to feel shy, how they deal with that situation can shape their future reactions to similar situations.
For example, if people who are shy approach new things little by little, it can help them become more confident and comfortable. But if they feel pushed into situations they don't feel prepared for, or if they are teased or bullied , it can make them even more shy. The examples other people set can also play a role in whether a person learns to be shy or not.
If the parents of a shy child are overly cautious or overprotective, it can teach the child to back away from situations that might be uncomfortable or unfamiliar. Shy Strength Many people want to reduce their shyness. If you're trying to become less shy, it can help to remember: Overcoming shyness takes practice.
People who are shy tend to give themselves fewer chances to practice social behaviors. It's no wonder that people who shy away from socializing don't feel as socially confident as those who are outgoing — they have less practice! The more you practice social behaviors, the easier they get, and the more natural they feel for you. Take slow, steady steps forward. Going slow is OK. To prevent or manage shyness, parents and guardians can help children develop the following skills:. Soccer is a fast-paced team sport that often includes falls and collisions.
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Health Conditions Discover Plan Connect. Mental Health. Medically reviewed by Timothy J. Focusing on the audience rather than yourself can help you be less caught up in whether you stumble over your words. She also suggests challenging yourself by being more open to new situations.
This means changing your script. Ask yourself what you fear most about social situations. Are you worried about appearing boring? Or running out of things to say? The more you know about your anxiety, the more you can start to challenge it.
Jessie Sun, a PhD student at the University of California Davis who researches the psychology of personality, stresses that shyness and introversion are not the same thing. Western culture puts great emphasis on making eye contact - but not every other culture is as comfortable with this Credit: Getty Images.
Shy people are often introverted, but they might also be extroverts whose anxiety gets in the way of being sociable. And non-shy introverts might be socially adept but just prefer their own company. But could introverts get in on some of that joy and enthusiasm — by just acting extroverted? Sun and her colleagues did an experiment. They asked people to act extroverted for an entire week — which is a long time for someone who is shy.
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