What makes a good childhood




















About wellbeing What is wellbeing? What affects wellbeing? How to measure wellbeing? How to improve wellbeing? Next article. These days spontaneity is crucial. We have all become obsessed with making plans and booking in playdates. A child has no measure of what things cost so you might as well go for a walk in a forest as a costly trip to an ice rink or restaurant.

To them it makes no difference. We are living in such a time of change, such interesting times, but a whirlwind all the same. Simple pleasures must be cherished. I think that nature is a gift that every parent should try to give to a child.

Enabling a child to be at ease in open spaces helps them to understand their feelings. That could be leftwing politics, rightwing politics, Christianity or the Koran. The child who sees their parents believe in something is the child who will have a strong idea of who they are.

One of the greatest signs of growth in a young person is when they start to choose what they believe in. I was brought up in a very dysfunctional, seriously Christian foster family, but they always encouraged me to ask questions. That ability to think of home as a place where ideas can be cultivated is really important.

The skill is learning how to hear that voice and offering the space and opportunity for it to grow. We tell our children the world is their oyster yet at the same time many of us have a fear of the rest of the world.

If children are not taught about the virtues of diversity then they fall prey to racist behaviour. Ultimately, family is a collection of stories and childhood is an introduction to that book. As you live your life you come to realise the significance of that introduction.

The effect of your childhood is played out in your adulthood. What happens in that introduction is everything. At the moment I am going through lots of emails from the girls who read my books and send them to the website. At one end of the spectrum there are the children who are upset about being teased or not being popular and at the other the ones who are actually having a really tough time. I think that the very best kind of attention you can give a child is reading with them.

That could be cuddling up with a toddler or sharing stories with an older child. Find support, advice, activities to keep kids entertained, learning opportunities and more in our Coronavirus Parents: Parenting in a Pandemic Facebook Group. For ongoing updates on coronavirus-related issues and questions that impact children and families, please find additional resources here. She lives in southern Michigan with her husband and five children.

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